Contradiction with Exodus 20:12
This verse commands to honor one's father, whereas 2 Samuel 18:9 describes Absalom's rebellion against his father, King David.
Exodus 20:12: Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee.
Contradiction with Proverbs 17:21
This verse states that a foolish son brings grief, which contrasts with Absalom's demise bringing mixed emotions of grief and justice to David.
Proverbs 17:21: He that begetteth a fool [doeth it] to his sorrow: and the father of a fool hath no joy.
Contradiction with Ephesians 6:2-3
This verse emphasizes the importance of honoring one's parents for a long life, while Absalom's actions in 2 Samuel 18:9 ultimately lead to his premature death.
Ephesians 6:2-3: Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first commandment with promise;)
Paradox #1
The contradiction or conflict in this verse can stem from the tension between justice and mercy. In the broader story, Absalom is a rebellious son against King David, yet David instructs his men to deal gently with him despite his rebellion. This can conflict with the idea of justice, where wrong actions typically result in punishment. Balancing compassion with justice can be seen as a moral inconsistency.