Contradiction with Deuteronomy 24:5
A man who has taken a new wife is exempt from military duty for one year to focus on his marriage, suggesting a positive marital focus contrary to curses.
Deuteronomy 24:5: When a man hath taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war, neither shall he be charged with any business: [but] he shall be free at home one year, and shall cheer up his wife which he hath taken. [neither...: Heb. not any thing shall pass upon him]
Contradiction with Proverbs 18:22
This verse states that finding a wife is a good thing and finds favor from the Lord, which contradicts the notion of a wife being taken away.
Proverbs 18:22: [Whoso] findeth a wife findeth a good [thing], and obtaineth favour of the LORD.
Contradiction with Genesis 2:18
The declaration that it is not good for man to be alone implies the value and blessing of companionship, opposing the idea of marital separation as a curse.
Genesis 2:18: And the LORD God said, [It is] not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. [meet...: Heb. as before him]
Contradiction with Psalm 128:3
This verse describes a wife as a fruitful vine within the home, contradicting the notion of losing her to another man.
Psalm 128:3: Thy wife [shall be] as a fruitful vine by the sides of thine house: thy children like olive plants round about thy table.
Paradox #1
The verse speaks about a curse where one's efforts or possessions are taken by others, which might seem to contradict the idea of a just and benevolent God who rewards good behavior. However, in context, these consequences are part of a covenant relationship where disobedience leads to punishment. The broader message is about the importance of following God's commandments. So, any perceived contradiction is resolved within the covenant framework.
Paradox #2
This verse describes harsh consequences for disobedience, including personal suffering and loss. The moral conflict can arise from the idea that an all-loving and just deity would allow or cause such severe consequences for not following certain rules. This can seem inconsistent with the concept of unconditional love and fairness.