Contradiction with 1 Corinthians 7:32-34
This passage suggests that unmarried individuals can care more for the things of the Lord, whereas Ecclesiastes 9:9 emphasizes joy in marriage.
1 Corinthians 7:32-34: But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: [that belong...: Gr. of the Lord]
Contradiction with Matthew 19:10-12
Jesus speaks about those who remain unmarried for the kingdom of heaven’s sake, which contrasts with Ecclesiastes 9:9's focus on enjoying life with one's wife.
Matthew 19:10-12: His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with [his] wife, it is not good to marry.
Contradiction with 1 Corinthians 7:8
Paul advises the unmarried and widows that it is good to remain unmarried, contrary to the encouragement of enjoying life with a spouse in Ecclesiastes 9:9.
1 Corinthians 7:8: I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I.
Contradiction with Luke 14:26
Jesus indicates that following Him may require forsaking family ties, which opposes the idea of finding joy with a wife as stated in Ecclesiastes 9:9.
Luke 14:26: If any [man] come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.
Contradiction with 1 Corinthians 7:38
Paul suggests that the one who remains unmarried does better, while Ecclesiastes 9:9 emphasizes the enjoyment of life with a wife.
1 Corinthians 7:38: So then he that giveth [her] in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth [her] not in marriage doeth better.
Paradox #1
Ecclesiastes 9:9 might seem inconsistent with other parts of the Bible that emphasize eternal or heavenly rewards over earthly pleasures, as it encourages enjoying life and relationships here and now. This might appear contradictory to teachings that focus on spiritual matters and the afterlife.
Paradox #2
Ecclesiastes 9:9 might seem inconsistent with other parts of the Bible that emphasize a focus on spiritual endeavors over earthly pleasures. Some other verses encourage seeking eternal values over temporary joys. This can appear as a contradiction between enjoying life in the moment versus seeking spiritual or eternal fulfillment.