Contradiction with Proverbs 10:19
Proverbs 10:19 suggests that speaking much leads to transgression, which contradicts the exhortation to be swift to hear, and slow to speak, as it implies restraint is necessary to avoid sin.
Proverbs 10:19: In the multitude of words there wanteth not sin: but he that refraineth his lips [is] wise.
Contradiction with Ecclesiastes 3:7
Ecclesiastes 3:7 speaks of a time to keep silence and a time to speak, which suggests there are times when speaking quickly is appropriate, contradicting the advice to be slow to speak.
Ecclesiastes 3:7: A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
Contradiction with Titus 1:13
Titus 1:13 advises rebuking sharply, implying quick and decisive speech, which contradicts the advice to be slow to speak and slow to wrath.
Titus 1:13: This witness is true. Wherefore rebuke them sharply, that they may be sound in the faith;
Contradiction with Proverbs 29:11
Proverbs 29:11 contrasts the caution against wrathful responses by noting fools give full vent to their spirit, whereas James 1:19 advises being slow to wrath.
Proverbs 29:11: A fool uttereth all his mind: but a wise [man] keepeth it in till afterwards.
Paradox #1
The contradiction or conflict might come from situations where being quick to listen and slow to speak could clash with the need to react quickly in emergencies or to speak out against injustice immediately. Balancing when to act swiftly and when to listen carefully can sometimes be challenging. However, such a situation would rely heavily on context and personal judgment.